the simple joys of family life

I was showering this morning and it was the most peaceful shower that I have had in like a month it it was like at 4:30am. So I was thinking to myself that all the times my kids disrupted my calgon moment it is due time for a taste of their own medicine. So today in my battle for my household when it is bath time I shall disrupt them. Parents there will be no mental abuse just enough drama to ruin their bath fun. It is going to be perfect. I will give them tons of bubbles and bath toys with lukewarm water that is how they like it. I will leave and listen around the corner than when everything is fun I will pop up and ask them where the apple juice is? I don't feel guilty about my plans there is no need to. I feel that every parent takes the opportunity to bother their children. I just hope they don't get the idea to splash me. Today victory will be mine. Well at least five seconds because I am sure dealing with all three of them at some point today they will regain power. Any who I could be doing better my back was getting better but I have fallen like three times this week. I am beyond tried of hearing about Micheal Jackson just let the man rest in peace and stop trying to make money off of him. Jon and Kate are still in the news this is America every five seconds someone is getting a divorce and people people forgive Chris brown. its like the comedian said if they were to college kids fighting over a pack of ramen noodles no one would care. No one is talking about the girl from spider man III that hung herself now that was sad. It's like she died on a bad week because she barely made headlines. This dumb dumb in my city stole a car with a toddler in it and thought that he would not get arrested. Well it is too early for so much drama , don't even get me started on Steve mcnair men never learn having more than one woman will eventually kill you well that is in the USA that is. have a great morning and stay tuned for more from me including a video blog of my kids acting crazy and I will keep a weight log I just have to get some more equipment.

Lately I have been reading some of the headlines and it is just crazy what makes news now. No wonder why so many low income people feel invalid. I saw Kate from John and Kate plus eight on the cover of a magazine calling her a bad mom because she gave a smack on the butt to one of her kids. That is just crazy when a child does something wrong parents can deem punishment as they seem fit. If you like some others feel like you do not want to hit your child keep it to yourself and when they end up sexually active and bringing a baby home, or they end up having a DUI and they only 16 years old is not the time to rethink you decision. Most of these critics indeed received spankings themselves felt unjust and feel that they have to advocate for the world. Did they ever stop to think that if they mom had not spanked them than maybe they would not be voicing an opinion, they might be somewhere in an AA meeting or something. Kate got eight children six of them are the same age she needs to put the fear of mom in them to survive. It is eight against one for a good percentage of the day. If you have read any of my past posts parenthood is a battle and if you are like my family it is two against three than they got one up on you. Don't wait til your child plans another Columbine to pullout the "rod" than it is too late. Everybody wanted to know what was going on with their parents. Where I am from if your child wants privacy than they move out the only time a door can look is if you are in the bathroom or changing close. My mom talked to all my friends and read my diaries and went through my dresser and I think her for that. Any ways getting back on topic. Think about this the next time you are accusing her of being the worst mother in America, how are you involved in the matter, I don't care if you seen every show and whatever they invited you to a part of their life and not all. Anyways how would you feel if it was headline news every time you picked your nose? People accusing her of abuse because her kids are on reality and filmed three days a week if you feel that why way are you watching why further the involvement. She has a camera crew there and if they see abuse don't you think they would report it? No one has stop to ask themselves that they just want to sell papers and mix up the truth as usual. I am one who truly believes in the threefold rule. you know what I am talking about what you put out there you get it back three times worse. For those critics out there who deemed you perfect and fit to speak on the lives of others besides the fact that it entertains a little at the end of the day we are all still imperfect and make mistakes daily.

The next topic on my list has been burning me up for some days now. they cancelled some more black television shows and I felt like they were doing good and I know I tuned in every Friday on the Cw to watch The Game and Everybody Hates Chris. They were the survivors of an ever dying form of entertainment. They have put every minority ahead of what is now America's majority. To get black shows you have to go to bet and TV one and that is so crazy. Save our shows.

Last but not least leave Micheal Vick alone and let it go. It was on his property he was gone all the time let him go. People in other countries eat cats an dogs you gone try to band them too. The whole situation got out of hand and the world needs to let that man live his live. stop torturing that man he did not do worse things as some other players. Come on all them other felon athletes, Buying sex, shooting people, drug use most recently Dur's leave that man alone, let it go people. Vick did what the last president could never do accept responsibility. that's all for tonight.

Problems and more problems

I know that I have not wrote in a while but things have been kind of crazy. I tell you what I have been through somethings how some people get nose jobs I do not know. In the middle of March I under went surgery on my nose and I am still in pain. The surgery went fine but I always catch an infection after surgery and when I catch one infection it is life threatening because I have 2 pages full of antibiotics that I can not take because I am allergic. So i can only take the milder class of this type of medicine and I keep an infection for months. I have one right now. But I tell you one thing I am a professional patient. The people who come to drug you up can't spell the proper name you'll know I do not lie to you'll anyways they come in and I told them everything I needed to know. She asked me was I nervous I replied no and kept playing gin rummy on my phone. I have to be that why I have had 8 surgeries in my lifetime, and 7 have been within the last past 6 years. I still need like 2 more surgeries maybe 3. Another dramatic thing that happened I am the fat woman cliche I hurt my back and buttocks again because I sat in a chair and it broke and I hit the ground, to my defense the chair leg was loose because my kids had been using it for a playground. Imagine my embarrassment as I had to tell medical staff what happened. This is worse than the time when I was in middle school and I spilled hot tea on my stomach and the burn was in the shape off a spill, to make the whole thing worse I had a bag of frozen peas on it when I arrived to the hospital and the nurses were laughing at me. I could go on forever about what scarred me as a kid but I really do not want to post all my life on the net. Coming soon for me next will be a video blog with my crazy kids playing they are hilarious so be sure to tune in.

I just did something stupid

I just signed up to follow my own blog now i feel crazy. this is what i have been talking about it is late night my mind is unclear and im eating cereal it is the perfect example of net responsibly.

So busy on twitter I forgot about writing

I had been hearing about twitter for months and I thought that I would not join because hello I have like so many places to go on the web, my space, aolmail, yahoo360, helium, iwon and face book to name a few but than I got hooked on to twitter. I like it because the celebs show how much they are like everyone else. It is somewhat like a big old chat room that celebs can talk too. quick thought how is this country going broke when everyone has a record label any way getting back on the subject. everyday I update and look forward to the witty crazy things that people all over the world have to say. join in you might have a ball. well that is all for now I will chat later.peace.

So you had a bad day........

I have truly been having a bad week and day. Spring is in the air I am broke sick and my allergies are making me breathless. I have been using the inhaler like crazy and put on my face mask. I truly think that allergies and sinuses is like torture. the last time I went to see my ear nose and throat specialist I told him that why does everything that goes in you ear, down your throat, and up your nose looks sharp and painful. It looks like a promo for the movie hostel in there. He has all these one foot long thin stick things that you see going in your head and it makes your heart beat fast. Normally I am not that nervous but I became terrified because there were these long sharp scissors going up my nose I was hunched up and asking what are you doing to me what are you doing to me. by the time I asked my question he had did what he needed to do. he was getting some stuff off the lining of my nose I am not going into detail but it was so nasty. Anyways that is not what I was talking about sorry to get off the subject. I plan out my budget and than something comes along to mess up my budget like I need to buy six prescriptions at the same time because me and all three kids got sick at the same time and it puts me behind. For some reason the bills that we have I am steady on top off them but this month i do not know what I am going to do until June rolls in but I will find a way. I am just stressed and pushed to my limits. I make miracles happen because I can not work right now and it is crazy. I can feed my family of five on 100 to 125 dollars every two weeks need some pointers I will tell you. my number one thing is wal mart. well I am getting tired and I will right later.

find a little joy

Today I really do not know what I am in the mood to talk about but I do know one thing I feel a little better than before. currently I am trying to earn extra money so you can read my other works on helium.com. I write informative articles and poems and the works. anyways I have been sitting around wondering if things will get any worse I forgot about the good things. With so many things going wrong people do not take the time to love their life for what it is . Honey let me tell you all, I am constantly in pain all the time, and every time I go to the doctor I have something else wrong with me. I can still be happy. For me it is the love of my children. I love children, I love to be surrounded by kids if I could have fifty I would. But I believe now more than ever we all need to take the time to find something that is free and brings us joy and just grab hold of that feeling. Looking at the other side of things what is up with celebrities. Emniem is full of surprises and I like the fact that he picks on everyone. J-lo divorcing again Selma went back to the billionaire. You know we tell are kids life is not like high school and it is. The rich, beautiful, and famous are the popular who we just can not get enough of seeing what they are going to do next. Drama is the best. It helps us forget about our crappy life and laugh at someone Else's. Anyways I am not going to go on forever so i close with these words. Find something to bring joy to you in these hard times.

What is up with the world

I have been reading the news lately and it just amazes me how violent and desperate people get during hard times. It is up setting that so many murders and suicides take place. I always feel like money makes the world go round but it does not stop it. People lose all their morals when it comes to money and it is useless. Killing your family and yourself because you are about to lose your home and your job is gone never takes care of the problems it only is an easy bail out. Family is there regardless of material things and money. they are the things that do not change, family and true friends. I feel that way because when I was little I seen a play about Lot and his family. If you are a little familiar with the bible, or if you forgot Lot and his family lived in Sodom and Gomorrah cities that were getting destroyed by God because of their behavior. Anyways they were almost destroyed with the city because they were worried about their material things. They stayed back so long that the angels had to practically push them from their home into safety. They were told not to look back to what they had to leave behind. Lot's wife looked back and was turned into a pillar of salt. I have claimed to one thought after that I would never go as far as to lose my life or risk the life of my family because of material things. You only have one life and why lose it over something that can not live. So what I can not have I never stress over it or make it a big deal I just live without it and enjoy what I have.
Even for those out there who do not believe in God or the bible this story still gives a fine example of what material possessions can cause you to do. I am not trying to drop some knowledge on you just giving my readers something to think about. I am just so tried of hearing of family murder stories these past dew months when there is so much to live for. Changing the subject now, have you ever noticed when people think of paradise they think about the beauty of nature, you know white sand, flawless blue clear water beaches, palm dreams, mixed drinks with umbrellas, spending time with loved ones, and relaxing in perfect weather. Money and lots of material thing are never involved crazy right. No crowds, no big city, no cell phones nothing like that. If you feel like talking let me know what you think about the things that I have stated.

just catching up

I am so sick I have been in bed all day and night and it is so annoying. There are certain things that I have realized like I was looking on the Internet for information and I have been wondering about lots of things. Like on family matters they just cut Judy character and left it like that , the writers could have ended her character in some kind of way that is so cold. On small ville they took all the parents away what are they the children of the corn.Yeah do not think less of me I have seen children of the corn when I was like six and I do not like to think about it it scares the crap out of me. trust me for years I had a fear of white kids with freckles and red hair. I could not even watch Andy Griffin show at night because of Ron Howard. another thing I have to admit is that i still like Chris brown and ido not feel bad about it if Rhianna can forgive him than why can't everyone else. stomp the yard is one of the greatest dance movies ever. sleeping is overrated and resting sometimes is just pointless. True friends are always there for you. i know that that sounds so sappy but they are always there. one true fan is better than hundreds. why am I telling you this my readers are grown just tell your kids. well my medication is kicking in this as always, tenisha.

Madness in a dark world

Today I publish a post to all the people out there who like to read my writing. I have been watching the news and keeping up with the latest and I have come to realize that I would rather be watching a good tv show than thinking about reasons why Chris Brown and Rhianna should not be back together. People everyday deal with major problems on a regular but they do not make a big deal out of that. Octo-mom is not the only single parent in the world with twelve kids hey you want to know something crazy, I know a girl who had 5 kids by the time she was 15. Everyday people like that are the people who need attention and help. If she can afford to plan to get pregnant then she can afford all those kids on her own. Who truly indeed is the voice of everyday people like you and me, who have babies develop post par tum and can not get a mill on dollar therapist. We use celeb rites to raise awareness when everyday problems happen to them but in the end the only ones whom benefit from the spotlight are those it shines on. Millions of people deal with abuse, intolerance, mistreatment, pain, racism and harassment, the only difference is that it is done in the dark. The light never shines on that one life that needs to be saved until it is lost. It is time for the world to get together and grab everyday people from the darkness and shine some sunlight to help all not just the famous. We all tell are selves that the real world is not like high school but in the end it is because it all comes down who is whom and who has what. Or maybe right now it is just my medication talking personally I do not think it is but I am always open for comments. this is tenisha signing off for the night. Peace

I'm back and it is on, so go pop some popcorn

What have I been up to since well the last past month? Well I Have been going to check in with my doctors and two words, tax refund I did not go crazy but I did spoil my babies. We also took a weekend and stayed up in Williamsburg and it was nice, we did one of those time share tours and got a free weekend up there and some other things, I can not be telling you all all my business now can I? Well I will be posting some pictures up in a little while. I want to give a shout out to one of my followers to my blog, sister girl. I Love your comments and I will be checking your sight out later today my son is being so worse some. Know one can understand Patience better than a parent and he is truly working my nerves. gotta go.

Obama speaks out

Even though I am not into politics, Obama speech was firm and well adjusted. Not many politicians believe in speaking their minds the way he does. There was so much applause you would have thought that they were holding a concert. A lot of republicans were tight faced and red most of the time and some even left. The highlights for me were tight lipped republicans when he said CEO will not be purchasing fancy curtains and taking private jets on government funding anymore.The rich get richer by making the poor poorer and it is time that they took care of the problems that they have caused. Kudos, Obama.

Leave Chris Brown and Rhianna alone

For the last past week and a half all I have been hearing about is how Chris Brown beat down Rhianna.In no way am I saying it was right but we do not know the whole story not just see a picture or hear rumors, but they need to come forward and speak until than everyone needs to leave it alone. Its bad enough that a celebrity cannot let out a fart without it being posted over the web 2 seconds later, so all celebs mistakes are open in the air for comment. Personally how many women out there can say that they have never hit a man. In this double standard society things tend to get out of hand when situations like theirs occur. If this was Jane Doe from around the corner it would never have hit the news. You can never tell what some people have going on. What if she had been hitting on him and he could not take it anymore, and I heard that she suppose to have gave him an std that he can not get rid of. If that is the case that is enough reason for anyone to fight. Anyways the law is at work and if the news keeps on talking about it than Chris will not be able to get a fair trial anywhere in the country which will lead to a plea out of court anyway less time.

Tee's top ten things that a mother is

10 an event organizer
9 a dry cleaner
8 a maid
7 a therapist
6 a negotiator
5 a teacher
4 an account
3 a chef
2 a personal assistant
1 a pr rep

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I have questions

My friends daughter asked me what do fish drink? I love crazy questions like that and my kids do it all the time. I asked my mom, do cats have eyebrows? can people with no eyebrows still look surprised? I just realize that my oldest is like I was and sometimes I tell her how she can drive me crazy with her questions but I did it. For now on I will attempt to have a little more patience with her. Anyways I am just like any other human and I make mistakes so all I can do is try my best.

late night emergency

late night emergency room visit

need I say more. Victoria woke up with facial swelling and I am glad she is alright but late night trips to the er are so so tiring. Question, why are kids always hungry at the er? Is it the snack machines. why do people pick their noses in the car? everyone has done that at least once, come on lets be honest it is so crazy, everyone can see you but everyone has done it before. you ever seen someone in their nose in the car then when they finish they notice that you seen them and they get embrassed and than you see them in the store.( I know that is me in a bag I spent half of the day thinking about picking your nose out in the car.)

Its that time of year again, broke at home watching tv

That's right everybody is broke from holiday price jacks on food, and gas and no one is shopping. Everybody is curling on the couch and watching their favorite shows come back and who the better expert than me the at home professional patient mother of three. So here what is up with your tv. shows. Smallville came back with a mild bang when we discovered what happened to chloe at her own wedding, and they brought forth members of the legion. Pysch is one of my fav's mixing crime action and comedy all together Shawn is crazier than ever and Gus still gives off his positive atitude and dealing with the side effects of working with Shawn. Monk the cleanist man on the planet is back on Friday nights too. I can't wait to watch this week as he tortures Natilie when he gets hurt. Needless to say I am trult waiting for three shows Degrassi, and burn notice and Raising the Bar. Oh yeah do not forget to watch The Game and Everybody Hates Chris to of my fav's on Friday too.

Bring on the Obama Baby

Out of all the news Obama is truly on top. With Bush leaving and him stepping in there are high hopes an expectations for his presidency. I haven't seen black folks this happy since Bill Clinton won a second term. The history books have a new chapter and it is barely written. For once they can say that Obama brought more votes than American Idol. It makes me wonder how exciting the next four years will be and if he will win a second term or will a woman step up and take the plate.

I think that my kids think that I clean for fun

Yesterday I was busy being a professional patient my new career not by choice when my kids decide that while I am one the phone talking with the doctor they could have a party for three and they turned my living room to a tornado zone. That had already been two times I had spent cleaning house behind the little monkeys so they must think it is fun to watch mommy clean with her bad back and all. So after I got off the phone they still were in crazy mode so I made them take naps and I proceed to clean again and after dinner they made the house look crazy so I woke up to the tornado zone which I really do not want to tackle but I will.I had to get an mri yesterday and it was creepy with all that noise but the pictures look cool
and my back hurts worse but hopefully they can see what is going on. Well Isabella is loving her glasses and she leaves them on most of the time and I got her teacher to think for that. I think sometime next month I am going to see her in action and I will record for all to see and I also need to download her walking on the bus by herself it was so cute. Anyways I gotta go eat breakfast and take a nap. Peace.

Some pictures of the kids

Isabella with her glasses

Victoria on her way to school

Alexander wearing his stupid Wall-E shirt

Isabella on her first day of school

there is just something around every corner waiting

I feel like my body is a giant pin cushion of pain. I tell you what the kids not only get on my nerves but they have caused nerve damage. My back issues come from Isabella, my sharp nerve pains in the stomach come from 3 c-sections, and now carpal tunnel. What's a mom to do when almost all her nerves are gone? Me I drive my husband crazy. When I leave to pick him up from work when I have the car I come 15 minutes late, ask him to do favors while he is on the phone with his friend, or my most favorite thing is to wait til the game comes on to talk to him. Being a woman is a beautiful, powerful and weird experience. You know your family and you can use it. Most of the time I use it for good but there are times when I am on my edge and I use my knowledge to get a laugh and it feels great. Moms it is time to be honest, I reminisce about what my mom use to do to me. One time I had pink eye not a pretty thing. Anyways I wanted no one to come and see me because it was swollen and all drippy and just yuck. So I am at home in the room lying in bed in my underwear and my friend busts up in the door. Yes it was embarrassing and she did it not only once that day but like three times. Come on mom in my underwear only, no bra and an ugly drippy nasty yuck eye. Oh and another time my mom came downstairs to ask me a question while I had a room full of friends so I answered her question and did what she ask and guess what by the time I returned she told them about me being 16 years old and scared of chuck e. cheese, how I had no hair until I was three, and that one of my childhood nicknames was Mooney. Thanks mom!!! It is really gonna be fun passing your techniques to my kids. So mom my story is enjoy being mom even with all that can get on your nerves.

Isabella is loving school

The first day she was scared she cried a little bit. By the third day she did not need me by the end of the week she needs no assistance boarding the bus and she does not want to get off. On the last day before vacation she was begging the bus to take her back to school I just wonder how everything will go on Monday when they return. I will keep you up to date.